‘If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it’ – Steve Jobs
Typically, as a youngster I would fall for anyone who just didn’t go out of their way to be mean to me. I’d like to say that over the years I’ve become a tougher cookie to crack but I haven’t. I still wear my heart on my sleeve and will trust anyone until they give me reason not to and that’s the way i’ll happily stay. It terms of winning my heart, whether it be romantically (that position has been filled) or as a friend, you’re pretty much guaranteed a spot in there if you do any or all of the following:
1. Make Me Laugh
Even though I have the ugliest laugh face on the planet, I still love doing it, so if you can make me laugh (and it’s not that difficult – I laugh at most things) then it’s likely I’m going to want you around!
2. Care About Me
I’m a typical leo so fiercely loyal. I’ll make great effort to ask you questions to find out all about you, if you do the same in return it makes me feel like you’re after a genuine friendship, and you really care about what I got up to at the weekend. Then you’ll never be able to get rid of me!
3. Bring Me Food
It’s not just men’s hearts that are accessible through their stomachs. Doesn’t matter if it’s Michelin star or from the golden arches, whether you cooked it yourself or you bought it in. The best presents are always consumable!
4. Give Me Cuddles
In the truest sense of the word (minds out the gutter please) I love human touch. If someone sympathetically puts their hand on my shoulder or playfully holds my hand, i get that auto sensory meridian response I was talking about the other day (where the hairs stand up on the back of your neck) So the best thing you can do, in almost any situation is give me a cuddle (no ass grabs).
5. Get Drunk With Me
If you’ve tried all of the above and we’re still not bezzie mates then the last thing for it is to bond over a bottle of wine or cocktails, if we weren’t best friends before we certainly will be after!
